Judy K. Herman

About Judy K. Herman

Even the most capable, caring people can find themselves walking on eggshells in relationships that matter most. This often happens during moments meant to be meaningful. My work frees people to feel calmer, more connected, and able to truly enjoy the experiences they have worked so hard to create.Some of the most important shifts in life happen when we slow down, step away from the noise. These shifts can occur while traveling, during transitions, or at significant personal crossroads. That is why emotionally enriching experiences allow us to feel more present with ourselves & each other, especially when tension threatens moments meant to feel joyful.Those I serve often feel: • Overwhelmed or over-responsible • Emotionally tired from holding everything together • Disconnected from themselves or their relationshipsThey want relief & ease. They want conversations to feel safer & more honest without another argument, shutdown, or regret.My work transforms small moments of tension into meaningful conversations so relationships feel lighter & more life-giving instead of draining.I work primarily with healers, leaders, & seekers who are ready to rise above relationship drama & step into a bigger, more peaceful, & emotionally grounded life.Through speaking, retreats, & transformational experiences, clients & audiences experience more: • Clarity & compassion • Freedom from guilt, over-giving, & emotional exhaustion • Authenticity & emotional safety • Respect & connectionThis is not just better conversations. Relationships become more authentic & sustaining.My signature framework is a collection of over 40 years of applied practice, speaking, relationship coaching, & neuroscience integration. Proprietary methods include: • C.A.L.M.™ Method • A.I.R.™ Formula (Awareness, Intentionality, Risks of Growth)Supporting the mission of Relationship Wellness, LLC. we bring dignity, love, & respect back into the heart of relationships. Clients feel grounded in who they are & confident in how they show up.Decades of retreat experiences, speaking, & counseling along with world travel has shaped my expertise. Stepping away from daily demands often reveals what I call \"divine invitations.\" These moments can change the direction of our lives. That\'s why I hold that same kind of transformational space for others.I am the author of \"Beyond Messy Relationships\" & \"Relationships with Purpose,\" & created the \"Better Relationships, Better Life\" podcast.The Rising in Relationships™ Retreat Series, is a seasonal journey for year-round support.

Experience

1. Passionate for Inspiration through Relationships Counselor, Writer, Speaker

   Relationship Wellness, Llc

   Sep 2006 — Present · Chattanooga, TN, US

   I help leaders and families create connection beyond conflict. My clients are clergy, entrepreneurs, influencers, business owners and parents. They find clarity and meaning through transitions and difficult seasons. I provide online resources, counseling and consulting from a Christian perspective. A unique combination of life-coaching and mental health expertise provides a framework for success at home, work and beyond. Holistic therapy includes dialogue and awareness techniques to enhance emotional intelligence, manage stress, and refine interpersonal communication skills for authentic connection with self and the other.

Education

• Bryan College

  Bachelor's Degree, Christian Education

  1975 — 1979

• Liberty University

  Master of Arts (MA), Professional Counseling

  1996 — 2001

• Richmont Graduate University

  MA, MS, Professional Counseling, Christian Psychological Studies

  1996 — 2005