Jami Keller

WORK HISTORY

EDUCATION

SKILLS

ABOUT JAMI KELLER

My wife and I were living the dream and I was a mess. I had been gaslit as a child and I did not know how to accept love.Our relationship was good, actually too good. And at my core, I felt unworthy of her love. I kept myself busy to avoid my pain, and I was too overwhelmed to recognize Marla’s cries for connection, so off to work, high-adrenalin sports, and risky relationships. Then, as if by chance, something amazing happened.We attended a weekly couple’s meeting all about how we could make simple changes in ourselves, and both of our new thought processes began to transform our relationship! As a result of our new skills, we started experiencing deeper intimacy and connection in our relationship again. My previous belief was that I was not worthy of love, so I sabotaged the love I got. Replacing that belief with the fact that I was worthy of love was mindblowing and revolutionary. That’s when I realized that the secret to being accepted and loved in our coupleship was releasing my fear of being guilty and inadequate.All of a sudden we had a fantastic plan! It was to learn and understand everything we could about these tools that had almost magically transformed our relationship. We then started offering our coaching to couples who were experiencing similar dissatisfaction in their relationships.At the same time, our relationship began to exceed our expectations and we started to see significant success in the couples we were coaching.Every mentor we had told us that we had outgrown their process, but we felt there was more growth to be had.We ended up deciding to create a process and framework that couples can use to achieve deeper intimacy both emotionally and physically.We chose to call it The Coupleship Code. We can now heal 97% of relationships in 10 weeks or less. And that number increases to 100% when the daily work is done, well, daily.In the last 26-plus years, we have been able to help thousands of couples find happiness and love again.And I was able to stop feeling isolated and began to intentionally listen to Marla’s needs without feeling blamed and begin communicating my needs in a way that could be heard and acted on in healthy ways.This means I know that I am worthy of love and as a result, I am able to share my needs and desires with Marla. And best yet, value, cherish, and adore my beautiful wife!