Debra Mansfield

About Debra Mansfield

Dating today isn’t just frustrating; it’s emotionally confusing.Even for highly successful, self-aware people. The clients I work with have built incredible lives.But in relationships, they often find themselves in the same cycle:Attracted to emotionally unavailable partnersOver-investing too quicklyOverthinking every interactionFeeling anxious or unsure in datingNot because they’re doing something wrong,but because they’re caught in a pattern they don’t yet see.This is where attachment comes in.I specialize in helping clients, particularly those with anxious attachment, shift out of these patterns and into a dating experience that feels calm, clear, and grounded.I’m a Certified Dating & Relationship Coach, Matchmaker, and practitioner of CBT and NLP, with over 20 years of experience in the dating and matchmaking industry.My work blends:• Attachment Theory (understanding the “why”) • Practical strategy (how to date today) • Real-world experience (what actually works)Through coaching, clients learn how to:• Recognize and shift relationship patterns • Stop chasing inconsistency and choose emotionally available partners • Regulate anxious triggers and build self-trust • Communicate clearly and confidently • Date with intention and discernment • Build secure, lasting relationshipsMany of my clients are professionals in their 30s, 40s, and 50s who feel discouraged or burned out by modern dating.They don’t need more apps or advice.They need a different approach.I also host a curated dinner club for relationship-ready singles, designed for those who want real, in-person connections.If you’re ready to stop repeating patterns and start experiencing dating differently:I\'d love to work with you.Apply for 1:1 coaching Or Join the dinner club for a more intentional way to meet

Experience

1. Member Experience

   Bond Select Dating Matchmaking Network

   Sep 2024 — Present · New York, NY, US

   As a dedicated professional at BOND, I take pride in curating exceptional matches for like-minded individuals in New York and South Florida, helping them foster meaningful relationships and lasting partnerships. With a highly selective and tailored approach, I work closely with clients to understand their unique values, aspirations, and relationship goals, building deep, trusting relationships along the way. Drawing on over 20 years of experience in the matchmaking industry, I bring expert insights to guide clients through the complexities of dating and relationships.My role emphasizes elevating relationship opportunities by introducing clients to partners who align with their vision for life and love. I am passionate about maintaining BOND’s high standards of quality, ensuring every introduction reflects our commitment to personalized service and exclusivity. By expanding BOND’s presence to South Florida, I am excited to help individuals in this region find transformative connections, further enhancing the lives of exceptional singles ready to meet their match.

Education

• Global Love Institute

  Certified Dating Coach

Skills

• Textile Design
• Coaching
• Customer Service
• Trend Analysis
• Fashion
• Marketing Strategy
• Styling
• Event Planning
• Cosmetics
• Merchandising
• Brand Development
• Closets
• Art
• Entrepreneurship
• Fashion Design
• Personal Style
• Graphic Design
• Fashion Shows
• Wardrobe
• Corporate Image
• Dating Coach
• Personal Shopping
• Social Media
• Apparel
• Marketing